If a dhole decides to visit you, the message may seem contradictory - learn to use your own voice and learn to live in community. Upon further reflection, a community that does not communicate and understand each other's needs and desires cannot function. Individuals make up groups, be that individual and still thrive in the structure of the group.
Dhole do not exhibit sexual dimorphism, maybe there is something to be said about more subtle ways to distinguish individuals.
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