Marriage is hard y'all. I mean, when you get married, I don't think anyone tells you how hard it is going to be. Looking back, I wish people would have told us because in the past 13 years, there have been some #jesustakethewheel moments that I thought were going to tear us apart. They need to tell you that, despite always loving your #spouse, there are days where you sure don't like them much. Stress creeps in, kids are screaming, laundry is piled up like Mt Everest, schedules are packed, the bathroom floods or the car breaks down, and while you try not to, often it's your #partner that takes the brunt of your bad mood. It isn't intentional, but sometimes you drift apart without even realizing it.
4 years ago, we were in a bad place... like a make or break place where we had to look at each other and say "I still choose you. I still choose this marriage and this life." It wasn't about love because we've always had plenty of that, this was about getting back to liking each other. This was learning how to speak #lovelanguages so that our "love tanks" were full. It was about learning to be intentional with our time together and making US a priority. We decided marriage counseling was the way to do that, and it has changed us and our marriage are more than I could have ever imagined.
And we've done that, that doesn't mean that we don't slip or that we don't still argue because we do, but now? We have the tools to work through and while it's not always perfect, this man, this love and this life are the one I wake up and choose every single day. Sometimes he drives me crazy, but he's mine and I'm grateful for him, and all that comes along with that.
So proud of my man..an incredible coach, leader, and motivator. The impact you make to the lives of the children you coach is a beautiful thing to watch. ❤️ #soproudofyou#footballcoach#loveofmylife @claudep26
Meine erste große Liebe, Die Mutter meiner Kinder und meine bessere Hälfte.
Ich kann gar nicht in Worten beschreiben wie viel ich für dich empfinde, Du bist mein ein und alles, meine Nummer 1.
Egal was alles schon passiert ist wir haben immer wieder zueinander zurück gefunden, wir halten zusammen wie dick und doof, wie Bonnie und clyde und als wären wir beste Freunde
16.03.2010 der Tag wo wir zueinander gefunden haben
Ich liebe dich♡