Happy Monday everyone! Put myself together this morning, my kid got to school on time, and I got to work on time despite the snow! However, I do have one kiddo down for the count sick. So that's no fun. I forgot to straighten my hair today too so it's all sorts of wild. Still loving my blonde and a little darker root. Thanks @mirandafuq youre the best 😘😘 I hope you all have an amazing day!
I’m just gonna go ahead and leave this right here 👌🏻
I’ve posted this once before a while back, but I’m in this season of my life right now where this has become so much more real to me, the more I’m learning my worth all over again and remembering who I am underneath all the layers of build-up and junk I’ve accumulated from people and hurts and wounds throughout the years.
I used to be the girl who knew exactly what she wanted, exactly what she stood for, exactly what she wouldn’t tolerate, and was never afraid to throw up the ✌🏻 and jet if I needed to. Then I met Jesus. Somewhere in there my heart expanded for people, which is GREAT.... but I inherited that love for people before I learned the boundaries to protect myself in the process, and I never actually watched myself disappear in the midst of loving other people so well... it just kind of... happened. Somewhere in there, I forgot to love MYSELF.
So in the midst of this new season, where I’m really enjoying meeting myself all over again and being single and learning what I NEED, and who I AM, and what I actually do bring to the table in any setting or capacity (which is a whole lot 😉), the one thing I would definitely say to others around me - ESPECIALLY all the young girls at BSSM- is learn to know and love yourself FIRST... and you’ll never find yourself begging for anything ever again... you’ll just require it. Be fierce in your own skin. Be comfortable with exactly who you are. GROW. Mess up. Make mistakes. Grow some more! Give yourself GRACE. And then take a seat at that table, and watch who can’t help but come sit next to you because everything you naturally are, effortlessly, is everything they crave.