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Thursday's are going to be throw down Thursday (aka conflict resolution.) We will be giving you proven tips, skills, and tools to use in your relationships with others. Not just marriage or intimate relationships, but all relationships. .
This week will be Mirroring. “What I heard you say is…” This single tool will help with communication in relationships as well as lead to a better resolution when conflict arises.
When you mirror, your focus turns to the other person’s feelings and opinions and you consider them WITHOUT JUDGMENT. You are not asked to agree with their position, you are simply being asked to hear them in a deep and honest way.
When you mirror, you momentarily put your feelings and opinions on hold and mirror back “What I heard you say is…” and you mirror as close to the exact words as possible.
When you mirror someone and try to repeat back what they said the best you can, you make that person feel heard and validated. Always remember, just like any tool we give you it takes practice to get good at it.
The goal is to be married but do you understand the work that has to be put in after you leave the alter that is necessary to have a GOOD marriage? Remember, a marriage won’t solve your problems. In the spiritual realm it actually becomes a TARGET for problems. Satin is out to destroy marriages. Watch out for the bullseye! Being married isn’t CUTE, it’s WORK! #millenniummarriageministry#marriagegoals#marriagematters#marriagematerial