Since moving to Bali, I haven’t travelled as much to other places as I used to. Travel is mostly spent to go back home, which is amazing, but I’ve come to realise how much I actually love to travel and explore new places.
One of the things that I loved most was that wherever you went, you were just exactly who you were in that moment.
Just someone on an adventure, passing through. Exploring new places, meeting new people, sometimes even making new friends. A brief moment shared.
It struck me the other day, you don’t need to go to other places to just simply be who you are. The stories, the expectations, our attachments to the past, are simply creations of the mind that can keep us from living in the moment and simply being who we are.
We can always choose to be right here, right now – exactly as we are – if we can loosen ourselves from the hold of “what other people think” (honestly, most of the time they’re not thinking about you anyway!) or what we ourselves believe to be true about us based on our past.
In any moment you can choose to be exactly who you want to be.
You are infinite possibility.
Right here. Right now.
Think this is just for stay home mommies? It's not!⠀
Why would an Infectious Disease Doctor working 90+ hour weeks, making rounds at 8 hospitals, who was also a mother, and a wife to a Physician, ever do R+F?⠀
Why would a Financial Services Representative who had great benefits, quarterly bonuses, awesome hours, who loved her job and customers, start her R+F journey after just having her first child?⠀
And what would a wife, mother, and former college athlete, who loved the culture of a team and building others up, see in Rodan + Fields?⠀
As you can see, all different backgrounds and careers, but Rodan + Fields does not discriminate... Rather EMPOWERS any determined woman!⠀
Read each of these stories (listed above), and how R+F has been life changing for these ladies! Allowing them to become some of the top leaders in the company and to empower thousands on their teams to fulfill their callings!⠀
What could saying yes to R+F mean for you?
You’ve seen the BEFORE and AFTER now check out all the glorious details #behindthedesign 🤩 #WeekendRefresh •
This was my 8th #tutorial video working with @tastemadehome and while I never thought my YouTube channel would be anything along the lines of #DIYhomedecor I’m HOOKED guys! 😆
What type of content do YOU want to see on my YouTube channel? 🎥📺
- DIY home decor?
- Helpful home hacks?
- Real life client projects?
- Weekly vlogs?
- How to’s on style and design?
- Simple Feng Shui tips? •
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Comparison stops you from being you. And none of us need that kind of negativity in our lives. Instead, we need to be surrounded by the people that support us and cheer us on.
Now you may be thinking, but Christopher, I follow a few people that I want to be like. If you admire them and you are learning about them, AND you are learning how to be a better human, then go for it. That's different than comparison. Just don't follow and think, you're not good enough.
Admire, learn, and grow. But let's stop comparing. Because our stories are different. #stopcomparing#youareenough#ourstoriesmatter
Here it is. The holiday season. The time of year where we’ll blink and then it will be 2019 and we’ll be asking ourselves “where does the time go?”⠀
I’m trying to remember to slow down, but if I’m being honest with you slowing has never really been my thing. I’m realizing more and more, as a shortage of time demands that I pick and choose what I do and don’t do, that saying “no” and setting some boundaries for myself makes me feel so damn good. That’s what’s I am focusing on over the next year, doing what feels good and skipping the rest. ⠀
In this time of year where self-reflection seems to run rampant, I encourage you to think about how you want to FEEL and then set out to do (and don’t do) things that get you there.⠀
Just a QUICK reminder, at no point in history, did online marketing gods 😅come down from the sky, on a mountain with a burning bush and carve into stone the 10 commandments of online marketing.
So all those rules you’ve been making yourself follow? All the...
⠀ “Thou shalt not launch a new offer without spending months outlining all the modules and nurturing leads with blood, sweat and tears first.”
⠀ “Thou shalt not launch a group program, course, or god forbid a membership site unless your list is over 500, ideally 😂 1,000, eh let’s say 5,000.”
⠀ “Thou shalt not charge the rates you desire until you are either a certified coach, have been underpaid for at least a year, or ideally both.”
“Thou shalt not sell any high end offers without an official branded sales page and 60-90 min sales calls ensuring that your entire schedule 🗓 is booked and you never actually feel “free” in your freedom based biz.”
⠀ “Thou shalt not feel any joy, satisfaction, freedom or any of those good feelings, only fear, frustration and overwhelm until you’ve “made it”, whatever that means. Have 🤷♀️ fun!”
And most importantly...
⠀ “Thou shalt not ever name or claim to be an expert or leader of any type until the online marketing gods committee stops by your house with the official paperwork 🤦♀️ and plaque.”
Yeah, all those.
All those things that have kept you second guessing, wondering if you’re doing it right, trying to find the rule book that will just give you the step-by-step formula...
Ready to detox 🤭 from all the rules that have kept you trapped and spinning?
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Never give up on your dream just because of how long it will take to accomplish it - the time will pass anyway. Better to be off doing something worthwhile that sets your soul on fire than live half a life. You can fail doing something you hate anyway, so why not take a chance on something you love?
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THIS is my family. These are the people who are immediately and directly affected by your choice to shop my small business this Holiday Season. 💜
It is always such a privilege to serve my customers and help them feel confident in the skin they are in with products that impress! But please know it is a BLESSING to me and my family as well when we do business together! 💜
You may not always see the direct impact that you’ve had, whether it's paying for Leah-Claire's dance /gymnastics, Luke's enormous food bill. Thank you for allowing me to love my family, and to serve you by making you feel beautiful and confident, and hopefully even encouraging you to be the best version of yourself. 💜
Thank you this holiday season for shopping small with me. It is ALWAYS my pleasure to serve you! 💜
If you remember, a couple months ago I showed up on this page talking about launching some long-awaited dreams and feeling nervous about them. It was the first time I publicly said that I wanted to coach other women through the unique challenges of an intercultural relationship, and that vulnerability scared the crap out of me.
Since then, I’ve finished beta testing my coaching services, and honestly that experience exceeded my expectations in all the ways. The women I worked with expressed more gratitude and excitement than I’ve ever experienced in a professional setting, and I felt those same feelings. My website has earned some sweet new testimonials as a result, and you can feast your eyes on them at the link in my bio.
It’s my hope that by sharing this here, you’ll keep me in mind if you know/meet someone who’d benefit from working together. In the meantime, I’m also beyond thrilled to put my other terrifying vulnerability pet project out into the world, my new podcast, the Borderless Stories Podcast! While it will share stories of intercultural relationships, it doesn’t require being in a relationship like mine to enjoy it. 😊
I hope you’ll check it out at @borderlessstoriespodcast !!