💡Over giving is a sign of not being able to receive love.
When you over-give to someone, you subconsciously block them the literal space to give it back to you. ✔️They can't do anything to reciprocate the affection because you are suffocating them with gestures and love bombs, and that's when passivity happens. He can't get in, you're rushing the door.
If you have ever said in regards to a man: "I give and I give but MY needs are never met" then you might have an issue with actually receiving.
Always being the one to give and give is actually a defence mechanism, plus an identity slam (if we are always 'hard done by' with men, it's a predictable cocoon, and we can stay the same right?) Those who are open to love and can sit with grace in the space between relationships are rarely the ones burnt out by ALWAYS giving.
Why? Because they know that a partnership is a moving, ebbing, concoction of give and take. You do for each other and it's a dance.
When you are metaphorically out of breath from the hoops you are jumping, it's time to really think about why you're showboating in love, and what would happen if you stopped and let him in.
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