Why do you love?
Why do you think you Love?
If it's because they are beautiful, let me tell you that this is self love because you're glad they'll look good on your arm or your dating history.
If it's because you say they're the person of your dreams or you see them in your future, well it's not hard to see anything in your future really. Your imagination is stronger than you think.
If it's because you always want them around, well you need to get a job or something to distract you because you're choking someone's child.
If they're always on your mind, again, get something doing sweetie
Same goes with they're your everything.
Real love fits into real life. Real love is a choice. Real love is an action word. You "do" Love. You invest. You make effort. You are not vengeful, manipulative or jealous. You support them, you don't hide opportunities for advancement from them. You are secure without demanding constant reassurance.
Love is an action word.
Let go of love that doesn't act.