I must say I am "darn pretty." Lol. Throughout my life I have dealt with not feeling pretty and beautiful. I have wondered why multiple times no matter how many friends, family members and men I have dated said I am beautiful. I have done my research the reason being and...I didn't have the best parents while growing up. I still have great memories of my parents. They weren't bad parents but weren't the best. They are still alive. In my research why I rarely felt pretty and beautiful, I realized when your parents do not nurture you where they encourage you how wonderful you are no matter what, you deal with self-esteem issues. I can go on and on about this topic. But bottomline to all parents and future parents, I suggest to try to be the best example to your children, encourage them, compliment them, tell them how wonderful they are when they hit rock bottom and when they break up with someone. Another side note, one of the reasons why I am picky on dating. I am looking for someone that can encourage our children and not make them feel less of themselves and guide them have good self-esteem/positivity of themselves. Overall, my self-esteem has been improving when I have started to say "fuck it, who cares if you like me or not." Lol. Everything is a process and healing in life. Just remember to stay true to yourself and love yourself. Remember God made you and you're perfectly beautiful in his creation. Any questions or need encouragement, pls feel free to reach out to me. I am here. Remember you not alone when you feel a certain way. #loveyourself#selfesteem#love#life#staytrue#staytruetoyourself#lifewithvalerieneverends#god#inspiration#encouragement
You have the freedom to choose. You have control over your life. You will always have freedom to choose. I hope you can use it to choose what is right for you and your well-being. || #staytruetoyourself
Don’t try to dim your light 💡—the light being who you truly are. Stop trying to change or improve yourself because, only then will you be worthy, or because only then you will be ‘enough’ to do or be XYZ. Being your true authentic self, no hiding, no BS’ing yourself or others is what this world needs and is what your soul is yearning for. Just be you, beautiful! 💓✨
Incredible feelings, Incredible vibes, Incredible energy! S/O and a huge thanks to the fam who supported me and helped create & build such a fat opportunity @jeasydoesit510 @airmes_lex @done._.deal Couldn’t of done it without y’all! See you @ Oakland Pride fest. 2018 🤫🎉 #backstage
Have ever told you how f*cking gifted a photographer my momma @carolyn_munholland is??? She sure knows how to capture me 💚 Wearing her wedding dress in this shot ✨ Love you momma! Can’t wait for my next trip home so we can take out the camera 😘
Blank page means it’s the beginning of a new week. I like to journal especially about current planetary alignment and how this can indirectly or directly effect us. Everything is energy and it is not woo hoo witch craft! It’s become a real passion of mine. So in that said Mars our planet of energy goes retrograde tomorrow until August 27th. Be prepared for things to slow down. Don’t start any new projects, stay balanced, grounded and go with the flow. Saturn is in retrograde and rules Capricorn. The Full Moon this week in Capricorn sets the cycle of change. The eclipse season starts with a new moon solar eclipse in July, then Mercury goes retrograde.
Just keep being you, and stay focused on your dreams and goals because by the end of August the energy to move forward will be there. You may find yourself at a crossroad for much needed change. Go in the direction you are called to. Listen to your inner guidance 🙏#essentialoils#coffee#journaling#universeisguidingyou#flow#dontengageinnegativity#staytruetoyourself#mypassion#manifestation#intentionsetting