Сегодня произошла забавная штука – на меня подписался человек, с которым мы лично знакомы 🤪 🙄
Надеюсь, он ни о чем не догадывается. А если догадываешься, то напиши мне пожалуйста, что ни о чем никому не расскажешь 🙌🏻
Откуда у меня такая практически маниакальная боязнь того, что кто-то узнает, кто я настоящая? 🍀🍀🍀
Я известная личность? Нет. К сожалению, нет 😅
Но я работаю в крупной компании и у меня не очень хорошие отношения с начальством. Искренне боюсь, что если они узнают, что я была у психотерапевта и у меня даже есть диагноз – мне не очень долго останется работать в компании ❌🆘.
🍀🍀🍀 А так как несмотря на всю мою нелюбовь к работе я все еще хочу платить за квартиру, учебу, покупать что-то и пить кофе – я лучше помолчу и не спалюсь 🤫
Все, всем спасибо, на этом пост про мою паранойю закончен 😂
Ну и да, в реальной жизни зовут меня совсем не Алиса. Но это уже совсем другая история 🤷♀️
#Morning. It's sunday. I'm surviving. but , that's it. I hope once I wake up more , things will be a bit more positive. Plus a #coffee will do me good. My coffee maker broke. As day breaks I'm gonna go get a cup. Hope to take more photos of a rose in water I really like, but can't seem to get angle how I want... I took some photos a few days ago but think if I get angle better - it could be a better shot. I'm glad I woke up early, will give me time to journal, and be me, as the next two days are gonna be alotve scrubbing also decluttering... and likely , well a given - stress. As we have another housing inspection on tuesday- of which I really needed that day open as I see my counciler that day, we'll - was supposed too. And on wednsday it would be my dad's birthday... it's my second year of no celebration... my dad passed April 10th, almost two years ago..... I miss him and struggle still , daily . So yeah - I wanted this week to reflect and speak thru my art , do a lil art therapy. It's still hard without him. He basically took care of both my family , now as a grown adult . Me, husband and my son my whole life as well as he took very good care of my mom. Loyal man. I'm still struggeling to find my way without him. So, yes I hope atleast on wednsday I will have the day to myself and can set the day apart , in memory of him ... I have a couple ideas.
But yes here is a photo of my morning and me #wakingup , yes trying to #keepitpositive with all the #hope . This is my corner where I sleep ..... I have a bed - but no , I can't sleep in beds... so yes I think ridiculous to even have one in here, takes up so much space... the husband sleeps on couch #nojudgement please, everybody has their way of coping... but yes, husband insists on keeping bed.for me - it's storage. That's it. Ok sunday, it's 6:30 am and no sign of light. It's gonna be a gloomy day outside... how I even enjoyed writing this to you guys, and even following thru with posting this, pre - coffee... I dunno but hope the day is good to you. 🎀
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Past 72 hours ive only gotten 3-4 hours of sleep this stress the pain and the pressure just keep pileing on and im about to break i try to push back harder but it seems i cant push hard enough soon i will loose everything i worked so hard for the past 3 years :'( #fallingapart#tryingtoholdon#stress#gettingweak#abouttoloseit#weak
BAD ENERGY. The Elephant in the Room. Real Estate & Energy.
Many times I hear buyers talk about a property having "good energy" or "bad energy" (often kiss of death for a showing if price isn't reflective). This has different meanings for people.
Some people are very spiritual & sensory - they are feelers. Others are very pragmatic. I tend to flip flop all over the place.
What I have noticed after viewing 1000's of homes is that there are often little tells and clues that are so subtle we may not recognize that we are processing them and attaching them to our experiences.
Stress, trauma, sickness, self-defeat, divorce, abuse often (but not always) leave evidence throughout a property. Little "tells"of neglect are often the result of being overwhelmed, in financial distress or in a place of apathy.
Buyers absorb the information as they tour a home.
Mess is experienced as chaos.
A dirty house is interpreted as apathy etc.
Poor workmanship or lack of repairs as financial distress.
Life can be very hard and the one thing I have learned in my line of work is that there isn't a family or person regardless of income, education, successes or appearances who hasn't shouldered heavy burdens, heartbreak or defeat at some time or another.
It's important that those things don't colour the experience a buyer has in your home when you are selling.
There are ways to create lighter energy in your home if the energy is feeling too heavy when you decide to sell. Fresh paint and a serious cleaning (including appliances, window sills and changing furnace filters etc) can make a huge difference. You don't have to sustain that picture indefinitely - your buyers are usually only in the house for 15- 60 minutes. You just have to make sure they have the perception that supports your price. If it's not possible to change the energy, recognize your limits, price accordingly and take care of yourself. #Realestate#ldnont www.kimcan.ca #mentalhealth#stress#finances#blog#realestateblog