MOMS with Kids that are BUSY and are also MILITARY WIVES, I GET YOU.
I KNOW first hand that the military spouse is the silent partner who is sacrificing incredibly for the freedom of our country as the soldier themselves. Yet, it is a thankless job and often goes unrecognized. You fight so many battles that no one knows about. Add on top of that, the mission of motherhood. It is challenging and you are often alone, moving from place to place. DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH FINDING YOUR PURPOSE, or FEELING LIKE YOU ARE ENOUGH? DO YOU KNOW YOUR IDENTITY IN CHRIST? DO YOU HAVE PEACE WITH YOUR BODY AND FOOD?
I have been a military dependent all of my life. I have suffered from unworthiness, depression, not feeling like I was enough. I focused on my body, never finding satisfaction, always trying to fit in and belong. One day my eyes were opened and I have been able to shake it off, one layer at a time. What I have found is FREEDOM. Freedom to be myself and love myself well through developing healthy habits while living a life with flexibility & FUN. No boring diets or crazy exercise plans . After 15 years of training women, I am stepping up and saying, I get you, I get your struggles, come with me and I will show you this FREEDOM too. ARE YOU READY TO MAKE A SHIFT AND START LOVING YOURSELF AND THE LIFE YOU HAVE? Click the link in my bio to apply to work with me.
So many times people say one thing and do another. Only say what you are willing to do. Trust is a key to strong friendships and relationships. Trust is built on your word.
Be trustworthy and a person of your word.
Paula Vi www.time2dream.tv
Suffering Anxiety? 😱 😩
Maybe you FEEL stuck, MAYBE you’re trying to RECOVER from NARCISSISTIC ABUSE, Maybe you have a TOXIC boss or in a ROUGH place❓
Maybe you’re FEELING hopeless . . .
Keep Reading‼️ INTENSE, EXCESSIVE, & PERSISTENT worry & or fear about EVERYday situations, CONSUMED my LIFE. 😐
Constant FEAR 😱 SOCIAL PHOBIA, & THE NEED to SOLITUDE took over my LIFE. There were even times, I had felt emotionless or numb. 😶😮 REPEATED Thoughts 💭 of
worry 😐 made it EASY to isolate & close myself off from even, friends & family. 😔 I had
NO energy & ZERO motivation, yeah; my self esteem; nonexistent. Having to be somewhere DAILY at a specific time, for someone who lives in fear, that is NOT easy. 😔
Watching the clock tick, ⏳ brought on worry, & fear. 😩 Sooner then later, scheduling; my time, “always late” yeah, a boss wouldn’t put up with.
Whether it is, Work Place Anxiety or General Chronic Anxiety, PLEASE know, that it is NOT your fault. You’re NOT to blame.
Know there is ☺️HOPE & you will FEEL
WORTHY again. I am NOT the same person, I was a year ago. You can STOP ✋🏽 suffering.
Work that gives you separation from what causes you anxiety can be helpful. 👏🏽 Careers or Work in which you INDEPENDENTLY can set your OWN schedule to achieve a purpose/result will often meet your “wants & needs” requirement. 😊
I do NOT live pessimistically anymore, optimism has taken over & it can for you too. 😊🙌🏽 #anxiety#fear#worry#pessimism#optimistic#feelings#hope#narcissist#hopeless#emotionalabuse#narcissisticabuse#fearless#recovery#worthy#selfesteem#toxicity#victim#narcissism#toxicrelationships#toxicboss#independence#situations#daily#findyourself#positivevibes#overcomingdepression#overcomingtrauma#overcominganxiety#therapeutic
THE MOMENT OF OUR MEETING
It was as if we had imprinted upon one another. Every value and every life experience was interrelated as if our entire life had built up for that moment of our meeting. Everything that came before finally made sense and had purpose to ready us for each other. What followed left no questions just surrender and so much yumminess. This man was so deep, so powerful that there was much a time I could not hold his gaze. I was scared for him to see me. With him, I experienced the deepest vulnerability and a love like no other. Tests and trials, shutdowns and disconnections, pain and tears have all been as a result. But with them, old suppressed emotions have surfaced and been let go
With love those kinds of things have no place. Their connection to you has nothing on the love that wishes to fill the space they take up. And there is so much space in your heart that is taken up with that old stuff
In all this, it takes a present man to hold the space needed for you to unravel and to want you to because he wants all of you! You need that! You deserve that!
My message to you in all this is to know that you too deserve a vulnerable, all encompassing love that you cannot hide from. One that brings all that is not love to the surface to be healed. One that forces you to grow and expand as they fill the spaces in your heart with that yummy stuff
Stop chasing the one’s that aren’t showing up for you. Stop making excuses and start making demands... On the universe that is. Scream what you want, what you deserve, scream until your voice breaks. Because I promise you, the universe is listening and is just waiting for you to show up for yourself first.